My Unplanned Pregnancy

In response to: "8 Week Scan" 834 days old
by Chyna_Doll [Member]

I checked your profile and you're the same age as me. I was pregnant last year and had my baby a whole nine months ago. It was not planned either although I too had plenty of support luckily otherwise it could have interfered with my decision.
I've been there myself and this is a good place to vent out and talk about you and your new baby. more…

In response to: "8 Week Scan" 834 days old
by Chyna_Doll [Member]

Aww, a lickle baby inside you. :) more…

In response to: "8 Week Scan" 834 days old
by soyunperdedor ^Pro

I've only just come across your blog and I think you've made the right choice. Having an abortion due to another person's reaction to fear of the unknown is the wrong choice, in my opinion.

By the sounds of it, you are in a better position than many women out there. You are financially stable and have a supportive family. That little more…

In response to: "8 Week Scan" 834 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

aww!!
im glad you decided to kep it. you shouldnt give in just coz its what everybody else wants.
oh yeah and *CONGRATULATIONS* :) more…

In response to: "Defeated - AGAIN! " 840 days old
by nellynexus [Member]

i agree with sarahgroovy - if you want to keep it you can make it work, you will find out how much you an handle on your own in these situations
good luck more…

In response to: "Relief" 846 days old
by Elle-dee [Member]

Oh good, I'm glad something is settling in your mind. Sometimes you really can count on mums to be there. Just make sure you do think about what you want to do long-term, get your life sorted and see where you want to be in 10 years time! x more…

In response to: "Defeated - AGAIN! " 846 days old
by sarahgroovy [Member]

i dont know of your situation butn you won`t be theonly one to want your child if u have it dnt b daft n your family should support you in any desigion-(i cant spell) you make !!!!!! more…

In response to: "Facing the music" 846 days old
by Brenda [Visitor]

Hi,
I do hope your mum suppoted you- to keep the baby. I have never had to make that choice, but if I had, no matter how bad things were, I would still want to hold my baby in my hands.
I know you have heard it all by now- babies are humans with rights, they have emotions, blah blah blah. But I also pray that you will make the ight cho more…

In response to: "Facing the music" 847 days old
by bensmummy [Member]

Hope you are ok. Being a mum isn't easy but it is fantastic. My little boy is now 2 and it has been hard work but well worth it. The first time he said "I love you" I though I would burst.

Take care and Im sure you will make the right decisions for you x x more…

In response to: "So I told him... " 848 days old
by Elle-dee [Member]

I stumbled across your page on the home page and was just reading your posts it sounds like you can't have an abortion. No matter how much J convinces you to have it, you can't do it. You want this child and the only thing questioning it in your mind is J's feelings and opinions about the situation. I don't think its you who should be seeing the co more…

In response to: "So I told him... " 848 days old
by butterflykiss [Member]

Thanks for your comments. I know murder is an extreme and emotive word - I blame my Catholic upbringing but I struggle to think of it in any other way.

I am seeing a professional counsellor. I just find writing really therapeutic (plus a great way to kill time at work!), I'm not looking for answers, it's just great to put down the bil more…

In response to: "So I told him... " 848 days old
by Saffronica [Member]

Think about yourself and nobody else for a minute then ask yourself... do you want a baby?

Everyone is different in how they do things but here's what I would do:

Have a good long hard think about MY future, nobody elses.

I can keep the baby or give it up for adoption.

Am I mentally ready for such more…

In response to: "So I told him... " 848 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

You have your whole life ahead of you.

Abortion wouldn't make you a murderer, thats just silly.

Not a decision to be taken lightly but not the end of the world.

It's a world changer being a single parent as young as you are. You really need to get professional counselling as with respect for others they are no more…

In response to: "I'm pregnant" 848 days old
by deleted user [Visitor]

I think because of your beliefs you will have to wait till the child/children are born and go from there.

There are support groups you know.

You are not the first reluctant/shocked half to death mother and you won't be the last.

Good luck in whatever choices you make.

Regards more…

In response to: "So I told him... " 848 days old
by Pompadour [Member]

Please, please have your baby.
i know I shouldn't be posting this to you; it is your decision but all I know is the anguish of being 54 and having no children. If only I could turn back the clock and be 20 and pregnant....
I know being a single Mum is hard etc but loads of women do it. I'm sorry your man is a complete arse. more…